Many people do not accept mistakes they always talk lies. But when the real truth come out they start regretting and blame themselves.
The bible advice us to always say the truth because it will set us free. Let us accept our way of creation because we were created in Godís own image. For example one can hate himself/herself because he was born poor this is not good. God knows why everyone is the way he/she is. We should never force things to happen. We should be satisfied with what we have.