what it should be in marriage

[nancyshanice]

Actually a problem arises when choosing a marriage partner and many people end up making wrong choices,this makes one to ask, what is this that you should consider when choosing a marriage partner?

[outright]

When it comes to choosing a spouse, I used to have this list:
- someone i could have intelligent conversations with
- someone who i find attractive and someone who turns me on
- someone who understands me in all aspects of my life
- someone who shares my dreams as far as family life is concerned
- someone who respects me
- someone who has earned my respect
- someone who loves me truly and whom i truly love as well

=)

[Genius]

A marriage is another tough way of life that people pass. Consider how that partner socializes with others. Is she/he a trouble maker?

[lynkez]

There honestly are some facts we consider which render us regretting for the rest of our lives. Physical beauty instead of the inner beauty of the heart, career/education, financial status and some minor issues are what we look into so much thus forgetting to consider the crucial areas. We should go for someone who listens to us, appreciates us as we are, and is supportive either mutually or otherwise, a good friend, a compatible partner and someone who doesn't brag or nag too much.

This makes you realize and sail in real love. You can agree with me that people who do not take their time to chose ideal partners end up in divorce or chaotic marriage life, which as well leads to extramarital affairs. It greatly affects the family negatively.