Should She Keep It?

[seth kabiru]

I have a best friend who got pregnant and is confused what to do. Her financial situation is not stable yet and her boyfriend is not much better than she is and will not take the responsibility seriously. I was thinking a lot and deep inside I would like to suggest to her to abort the pregnancy. Do you think I am evil for thinking of her and the child's future?

I think you would be very very evil so to speak,let me give you the reason.
I had a girl friend in college and when having fun we made a "mistake" as most people would say and we wanted to terminate the mistake but something at the back of both our minds told us not to ,we had no money all we had we four very angry parents who wanted nothing to do with us,inspired by this "confidence" we matched on and five years down the line we are proud to have two lovely kids i.e. the "mistake" and his sister. Let me say that my first born is an angel of a son and he brightens my day everyday and I thank God that he made us not to do a terrible thing of eliminating the "mistake" which turned out to be a big blessing. One day I saw my father holding my son and I asked him why he had tears in his eyes and you know what he said?" I wish I had known then and I would have supported you, but now its too late" Yes it was too late because for two years he hadn't known his grandson and when he did,he has become his favorite grandchild and he doesn't hide it. There is a reason why you gave this story so please tell your friend to take heart and not to abort,who knows she maybe carrying our future president leave alone for the USA!

[Joshua]

Don't be evil. It is illegal to abort on the ground of financial instability. It is such a sin. Give it a chance to see the sun and you never know what happens thereafter.

[luicer]

That will be so much evilly and wicked my dear Elizabeth if you advice the chick to abort! Don’t and not even try to utter that for people to hear and see who you really is, a huge killer, a destroyer also be counted on you! Let her give birth and things would be much better than killing an innocent life of which God will never forgive you all for!

[nancyshanice]

Girl this is a good issue, your suggestion for her to abort is very dangerous, just focus on both sides of the issue, what if she aborts and dies? I am very sure it will cost you, and maybe if she will not die she may end up contracting some effects due to that abortion. So it will be wise if she keeps the baby and that will make her a responsible and keen person in future. It will make her and his boyfriend to work hard and keep the baby. Life is one of the precious things that we need to be careful with.

[Mercy20]

Why kill/ why subject the innocent angel in the womb to death? let her bear, definitely her parents will support her and maybe later,the man responsible will take over after being financially settled.

[ultimatch]

I am totally disagree with that idea. No matter how difficult the situation is, there will be always way to get out of it. Nowadays, I feel pity to those children who are aborted, at the young age they are already experience the pain and cruel of the world because of the wrong doing of their parents.

[205victor]

Let your friend keep the pregnancy and never go for an abortion in the name of financial constraint. Why should she take the life of that innocent foetus when she can give birth and take the child to an orphanage or give him to a foster family for his proper up keep? Children are a blessing from God and thus, they should be taken care of, no matter the way you conceive them, abortion should not be taken unless both lives are in danger while there is a possibility of saving the mother.

[Ivyc]

I think the girl should keep the baby , opting for an abortion isn't the right thing to do. Abortion can endanger her life, let her put to bed first and everything else will sort it's self out who knows maybe the man may come back for his child.