Attraction

[nancyshanice]

Can a man really attracted by her but not sexually attracted? Sometimes it works but is it normal?

[luicer]

Yes, I have seen people being good friends without having a sexual thought. We are social creatures and are supposed to be deeply attracted to one another putting in mind that non-sexual attraction is an innocent and beautiful quality to cultivate.

[lynkez]

Smart guys don't think of sex immediately they see and get attracted to a lady. They can like her to be friends and if they later feel they need more from her ask for a hand. Attraction that is directly linked to sex is infatuation and is likely to last for only moments.

[205victor]

I agree with both Luicer and Lynkez, a man can be attracted to a lady without sexual intentions for attraction has been there since creation. Recall when God made Adam a companion, Adam did get attracted to Eve but was there anything to do with sexual attraction? The bible has it that any man who gets sexually attracted to one who is not his wife has sinned therefore the need for each man to do away with such minds. I personally have many ladies as my friends and very much attracted to them, I do enjoy their company but I'm not sexually attracted to them