Is it hard for you to show love to your partner in public? Do you do it in the name of respect or shyness? To some extent you may say that it is an off-show but then how will people recognise that you really love one another?
Some people tend to assume love as something that should be expressed in a private place and out of any other person’s sight. It is true that love is for two people only but I bet you cannot hide the affection from the onlookers.
For instance, is holding hands with, hugging or kissing your mate in public wrong? Who else should then if you cannot? And after all there is no other time you will embrace the love other than then. If it is an abomination then maybe we should condemn the kissing when in a wedding and the groom is asked to kiss the bride as a show of love and appreciation of the gift of a wife and lover.
Love is sweet and amazing and there nothing as pleasant as being close to the one for whom you are meant. It can make you do crazy things. People may think you are being crazy but that doesn’t have any impact on you for you must embrace what you feel for the other where possible.
However much you may be in love though, it is a bad portray to caress in public. That will be a sign of disrespect and indiscipline, as well disorganisation. Some issues need to be addressed in the bedroom or some private place and not a show. To some extent I may regard that as public affection, which may affect others psychologically and some may end up detesting your type of demo.
In some cases, (and this is very possible) some people may be shy to show love in public maybe because they lack the confidence or some respectable persons are present. It is more sensitive when a bold partner ignores the other and possibly t is because s/he is cheating on the other and doesn’t want to reveal the truth that s/he is multi dealing. Such a person is sure of going for another lover and a public show of being in love may deny him/her a chance of winning another who might have seen him/her in action with the other partner. Beware of such people since they exist and are not easy to pick.
A bold show of love in public though reservedly is health to your relationship and adds spice to it. It makes you both feel appreciated and wanted but make sure you do not misinterpret the whole issue for s/he may be wanting to entice you so that you think you are the only one in their life. Otherwise if you cannot be able to express your feelings for the other in public, you still have room to show love to them in style, maybe by the way you treat or talk to them.



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