In real life, there are natural things which we can’t ignore or even do without. At least everyone has ever or has feelings for someone special in their lives. However much love may seem to be sweet, it needs ignition and nurturing.
Breakups occur maybe because one partner finds it boring for he may be the only one participating in love making. It motivates to respond to your partner’s feelings and reactions, and at times you may be required to begin it all. Failure to add spice to the affair may make the other run way for sweeter things.
The romance in a relationship makes it worthy to crave. There are many ways of keeping your fire burning. It is very important to probe what your partner likes and how, as well as try to research on what can keep your relationship alive. If you feel that your partner is not delivering to your desires, it is advisable for you to communicate to him/her before you plan to flee. Maybe s/he assumes you may mistake her charming as being playful (that one may think you were or are a prostitute/cheat).
Here are some hints to keep the romance:
Say ‘I love you’- Don’t assume that these simple words are obvious and may get it boring saying them to your lover. In fact they reassure and remind the other that you really value and recognise him/her. The words are magical.
Dine together- serve your food in one plate and call him into the dining table. Get a spoon or two and enjoy the food together. Try even feeding him and be sure he will like it and respond. Most people miss this for either thinks it is babyish!
Eat out- Arrange for a dinner out and surprise him, maybe on a weekend. Have some time walking together around and holding hands, enjoying the cold evening breeze and the view of nature.
Play games - blind folding, hide and seek, and even carrying each other on the back are some of the games a couple can enjoy, among others. This gives you time to laugh and tease around and this way you will find yourself somewhere-sure!
Watch your favourite programme together- time his best romantic TV programme and ensure you are settled before the screen at once. Touch him gentle maybe by rubbing his hands or laps gently with your hands. You may as well sit in his laps or rest your head on them and steal a glance at him each time a hot scenario appears.
Buy him a gift- Pass by the shops and get him some accessory, shoes, a shirt or boxers. This may be his birthday gift or valentines’ or just a love appreciation gift. He will love it and love you more for appreciating his love for you.
Offer to drive him- Men love it when their women drive the car as they sit coolly and comfortable. It really feels good to be the boss once. Do this not on a busy day but when you are out on a romantic trip.
Be creative and keep alive your relationship and you will find the true joy and meaning, and even satisfaction of real romance.