Knowing Your Partner

[lynkez]

In love’s perspective, there is great need for compatibility when it comes to likes and dislikes. It may be that either is totally different from the other but also, before you decide to change what you do not like, appreciate what is, so that you plot on how to better it.

Everyone has his own lifestyle. Different people are brought up in different environments and as well classes and this greatly affects perspectives as dating. For instance, you may find that your partner likes spending his free time in church or reading spiritual articles or playing in the pool or even watching football. This will automatically enable you make out one or two things about him.

Observing and asking can enable you to know what your partner favours and what he detests. If you realise he is mostly officially clad you will automatically know he loves that. It will help you dress appropriately too so that you don’t look like a celeb while he looks as if he is going to the office or to church. If he is into you he will surely try to change you by buying you official dresses and shoes and will ask you to wear the outfit the next time you meet so that he sees how fitting it is, then he will accolade you! He obviously wants to change you indirectly and each time he finds you celeb dressed he won’t comment.

It is always normal to ask each other your likes and dislikes when you are in the first stages of introducing one another into love. Saying and hearing may not be enough. Try to check whether what you see are really what you heard him say the other day. Maybe he thought you’d love those or derived them from what you listed as your likes and dislikes. He may say he hates gossipers but you catch him one day telling you many stories about other people, mostly their negatives dominating.

You can ask again if you feel you do not like what your partner considers as good. Remember you can easily change your partner - if he truly loves you he’ll accept correction. If maybe he doesn’t like your friends’ lifestyles then be sure to change friends soon. If you love watching games or partying in the club while you sip a little wine or beer and she is Christian, most likely she will wedge you from that so that you fit together.

This helps you know what kind of gift you should buy for him or in which way you should present yourself before him. Maybe he doesn’t like shouting in a chat or even laughing loudly. Make sure you are at least in line with his expectations.

By watching what he likes eating, drinking, the people he admires, how he talks, the places he likes visiting and the games or the scene he loves, you will conclude what he prefers over the other and why. Being keen on the kind of shopping he does or the kind of gifts he buys you will let you realize his taste. Don’t think it is a hard task; when you buy him gifts, watch and listen to what he comments or his body language, unless he reacts sarcastically. By rhyming with your partner, you make your affair more romantic and the bond tighter.

[Joshua]

Before even thinking of getting married, how well do you know your partner? You don't want to be shocked later on that you got married to a criminal just because you didn't take your time to know your partner well. You're supposed to disclose information to one another during courtship. Your partner should know your family and you should also know your partner's family. This happens gradually and that is the reason why courting should take a reasonable period of time. Beware if your partner is vague in disclosing some information especially when answering your questions. Don't be left in a mystery state regarding the place where your partner lives, what your partner does to earn a living and the family background.

Compatibility is very important in a relationship. You don't want to be in relationship with someone you find difficult to live with because you don't get along with him or her. Courting for a reasonable period gives you the chance of knowing your partner well. It is a period in a relationship that enables you to make up your mind whether to end the relationship or to continue it based on how you have concluded about the character of your partner. Be sure of the character of the person you're dating before you get married to your partner.

[dacox]

It is always good to know who your partner really is before you opt for marriage. Besides, this will help you know whether your partner is the kind of person you want to spend the rest of your life with or not. Knowing your partner however is an everyday thing; the more time you spend with them, the more you get to know their behavior. Some people say they spend all their married life trying to understand who their partner is and finally divorce not knowing who they really are.

You can always avoid this by talking about yourselves; carry a to way conversation to ensure one partner does not dominate the conversation.