Are you aware that most people are raped by their lovers, even in marriages? Love is a feeling of passion and admiration towards the one your heart cares for, the one whose feelings you never wish to hurt, the one you want to have fun with in doing almost everything as far as love is concerned, sex being a game of embracing real love and intimacy.
Sex is one of the acts of intimate love, as in opposite sex affairs. It implicates the readiness of the other, especially the woman, to be with her partner more and share those romantic moments together. Both parties should enjoy moments of sex after agreeing to do it.
Sex is more of fun when both parties are fully participating and therefore motivate one another. However, a concern has been raised that most men and to a lesser extent women rape their partners towards sexual arousalís cooling.
It is possible that your partner is not ready for sex when you are, and if at all one has no mood for it, it may be hard to convince him/her into it. Sex is something that is directly linked to the psychology of a person and if one is not prepared for it s/he may end up being disillusionment.
This is what we call rape, whereby you force your mate into sexing when s/he is unwilling. If someone is bored by something or someone and you are not able to bring back his/her moods but demand to have sex, then be sure to be disappointed for even if you do you will be doing it solely. Leave your partner alone and try to bring another charming story instead, so that you do not hurt his/her. This happens even in marriages, whereby sex life of a couple is very poor and this mostly leads to extramarital affairs.
However much you may be subjected to the right to conjugal rights, it is good to discuss it with your partner before getting into it. Of course it is possible for you to do it but then Iím sure both of you will be in for it after some foreplay and then, taken by the romance, you find yourselves cuddled in the act! This is understood and tolerated, but asking for it when your woman has visited at your house or even forcing it to happen may ruin her attitude towards you. Remember not obviously is it that when a lady visits you sex is a must, you can share sweet bedtime stories, maybe foreplay, discuss over some important issues and you are done!
Ladies are not an exemption. When they feel they need it they may force their men to sex with them so as to quench their desires. Though, it does not mean that you watch your partner suffer of arousal yet you are there to help out. You need to care for the otherís feelings so as yours be cared for. Do not revenge just because s/he turned down your request the other day, but not to a for-granted taker.