Let Secret Things Be Secret

[lynkez]

It is not easy to keep a love affair secret because in most times you will have to spend time with your love, or s/he is the most frequently called or texted in your mobile phone, but the activities running the affair can and should be kept secret. It is though fine that you inform your friends or close family members that you are in love, so that they do not inconvenience or mistake you anyway.

Regardless of this, it doesn’t mean that you unmask everything about your relationship to friends. Remember a friend is your best enemy. A friend may turn out to be a traitor or betrayer. Telling our private moves to people will not only lose you respect but as well will create room for intrusion from ill-wishers. That is why it is t times advisable not to publicise your relationship status and with who in the social networks for your partner may be hacked down by another predator.

If you are the engagement phase of the affair, then this calls for your perception to get the best way of communicating the same to your family members and even friends, including workmates. It can be in a dinner party, where you call your preferred friends and then as you exchange rings they will acclaim you. You don’t need to tell everyone you meet.

Women, or let’s say ladies are known to be loose-talkers, who cannot be trusted in keeping secrets. However some men as well don’t. So you are going out on a vacation and you are whispering it to everyone? Well, don’t be surprised when at last you get disappointed. If the rumour gets to your man he will automatically know you are acting loose and won’t keep any secret to yourself. You may steal the news for someone and you are like; ‘you’re the only one I’ve let know, don’t tell anyone else’. In fact that is the best way of encouraging another for you will make it so private but public. She will as well say it to another and caution her not to tell another.

Do not let out your conflicts to friends. You were alone when things we falling apart, therefore only you know the problem and the possible way out. Working out things together with your partner will lead to development of understanding. Don’t call in for a third party before you try solving. Otherwise you could have made the problem an explosion. If at all you are unable to arrive at a solution, and must call for a counsellor, then you need to opt for a person who knows you not. It could from a guidance and counselling firm who have experts in various matters pertaining daily life.

Jealousy can wear you out. Many relationships have been torn apart by jealousy pals, who on hearing the passion you have in the company of your love will want to cause a stir so that they see you no more lovers. Make sure you keep your bedroom matters a secret. Maintain the respect and let only yourselves enjoy moments of love. Do not floss with girl/boyfriends of how sweet your man or woman is nice in bed. You will not only seem a fool but as well may lose your love the moment s/he realizes you exposed everything.

[Faithfay30]

Those who have an affair thinking they will never get caught if they continue they will eventually get caught up. Affairs are costly to maintain. No need to be unfaithful with your spouse.

[dacox]

I don’t see why anyone will go out revealing their private matters to others. Nowadays even good friends cannot be trusted. You tell it to them and they have a best friend too who happens not to be you. The process continues and in no time, word could have reached everyone and your secrets will be out.