Things to Keep In Mind before the Big Query

[lynkez]

Hearing the man you love make to you a marriage proposal is every woman’s crave. A person who loves and really needs you in his life won’t hesitate to raise the big question immediately he realizes the qualities he was looking for in a woman are at hand.

‘Will you marry me...?’ This question is not easy to get from a serious person. As well, it is at times creates moments of confusion and silence, as the woman ponders with it on whether to accept the proposal or not. Maybe it is joy that dumb folds or it is lack of willingness to take the offer.

As much as you want to raise the query to your love, there are things you need to take caution on-of course this is your decision and no one else apart from you to the lady.

1. Let it be your secret

It should be a surprise and that means a surprise has no leakage. Do not give her a hint that maybe you want to propose for that will not be any new to her. Just a slip of the tongue and you’re done, as you wait for your response. Not even a friend is supposed to know this.

2. Be independent

Do not allow anyone, be it a friend, family or even the lady you are dating to pressure you into proposing. Remember marriage is a life time commitment and nobody should decide for you whom and whom not to marry. If you have identified the right one who catches not only your eye but as well your heart, then go right and propose to her.

3. Select the best time and location

Never make a mistake of raising the issue when both of you are in conflict. Wait until the time you are both happy and thrilled, in a place good enough for relaxing, with a cool atmosphere. This will bring out the elegance in the whole story. Do not propose in a jammed up restaurant or on your way to the bus stop or in any place which is so public. Remember she needs a breezy place to express herself on receiving the news.

4. Don’t be fussy

Do not complicate things or be so picky. Identify what you want; be honest to you and say it out. Yes you want to be, and otherwise you are the one in control of when and how it should be but then remember the more you complicate things the harder they become for you. You may annoy your partner for your selectiveness and this may block you from yielding the result you wanted.

[Joshua]

Some men are really funny. They date a woman for a long period only to marry another different woman. This brings you to the caution of being alert, to watch out the signs if your boyfriend will marry you or not. It hurts to be in a relationship with a man with hopes of him marrying you only later on for him to marry someone else. However, when you get the proposal, "will you marry me?" You get excited especially if you have been waiting for him to say these words.

There are some men who are ready to propose while there are those who are too shy and don't know how to exactly to do that. They lack a clear vision whether to propose or to remain bachelors. Some fear rejection, "what if she says No?" This is the question that makes them to hesitate. If you have found the right partner... a wife material, don't hesitate proposing to her. You hesitate she might think you're just wasting her time. Don't be afraid how she will react, just propose because it is a man who proposes and not the other way round.

[dacox]

I think those men who date with no specific intention of marrying should let their partners know about it. Imagine you have dated a guy for like seven years and he does not want or does not even have the plans to pop out the big question; if you are a girl who wants a family, you should begin to get worried. Maybe all he wants from you is a little bit of fun after which he might end up marrying another woman.