Hearing the man you love make to you a marriage proposal is every woman’s crave. A person who loves and really needs you in his life won’t hesitate to raise the big question immediately he realizes the qualities he was looking for in a woman are at hand.
‘Will you marry me...?’ This question is not easy to get from a serious person. As well, it is at times creates moments of confusion and silence, as the woman ponders with it on whether to accept the proposal or not. Maybe it is joy that dumb folds or it is lack of willingness to take the offer.
As much as you want to raise the query to your love, there are things you need to take caution on-of course this is your decision and no one else apart from you to the lady.
1. Let it be your secret
It should be a surprise and that means a surprise has no leakage. Do not give her a hint that maybe you want to propose for that will not be any new to her. Just a slip of the tongue and you’re done, as you wait for your response. Not even a friend is supposed to know this.
2. Be independent
Do not allow anyone, be it a friend, family or even the lady you are dating to pressure you into proposing. Remember marriage is a life time commitment and nobody should decide for you whom and whom not to marry. If you have identified the right one who catches not only your eye but as well your heart, then go right and propose to her.
3. Select the best time and location
Never make a mistake of raising the issue when both of you are in conflict. Wait until the time you are both happy and thrilled, in a place good enough for relaxing, with a cool atmosphere. This will bring out the elegance in the whole story. Do not propose in a jammed up restaurant or on your way to the bus stop or in any place which is so public. Remember she needs a breezy place to express herself on receiving the news.
4. Don’t be fussy
Do not complicate things or be so picky. Identify what you want; be honest to you and say it out. Yes you want to be, and otherwise you are the one in control of when and how it should be but then remember the more you complicate things the harder they become for you. You may annoy your partner for your selectiveness and this may block you from yielding the result you wanted.