Your Social Life Matters

[lynkez]

Living well with other people is a thing to practice and always uphold. The way you relate with other people depicts a lot in you and the more friends you make the stronger your bridge and the poorer you’re socializing the more you build a wall between you and the ones you may need at one time.

There is much we get to learn or discover when we interact with other people. We become able to handle various personalities according to how we view them in first impression.

Have a problem getting in touch with your neighbours? Some hints here to give you a leeway:

Be interested in other people. Focus on the outer for if you want people to see and admire you it will create a wall between you and the public. Get to be in touch with more people than they get with you and you sure will win their interest in you too.

Do not talk too much. Give other people a chance to give views without overlooking any. Do not start boasting about your new car or the piece of land you bought. This will make your listeners feel a sense of down cast and get bored with your company.

Be genuine. It will sound awesome to your friends when you speak realities and avoid incongruence, some sort of phoniness or mixed messages.

Appreciate people. It is good to be self confident but it also is very costly when one goes as far as neglecting other people or ignores them when they try to socialize with them.

Be always ready to help. The impression you create to the person next to you when your assistance is needed or the way you respond to a needy person will either build your positivity in social life or destroy it.

We should be grateful for friends and love our neighbours just like ourselves for they can really help us more than even a closest member of the family.

[205victor]

Talking of socializing and friendship, a saying goes,

show me your company, I'll tell you your character.

What happens when you learn that all of your friends are of bad character? Do you avoid them?

[nancyshanice]

What happens when you learn that all of your friends are of bad character? Do you avoid them?

Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experiences of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, vision cleared, ambition inspired and success achieved. Therefore abandoning them won’t be good learning their ways and then help advice them to do the right thing and they will follow your ways. Stand alone even if they reject you and they will come to understand that you were right and they will follow you. Stand alone as the strongest man.

[luicer]

Social life only matters by itself and do not matter if you are somebody focused to future life, but it is important to learn to get along with others. Also, both too much and too little social life can distract you from your studies. And enjoying social life gets easier as you get older, while learning becomes harder. In the long run quite a bit of it won't matter, but to get where you need to go it will; as far as stepping stones to your future it does make a difference. Social life is different- none of that crap will matter as soon as a few years after you are out.