Will you seduce or be seduced?

[shanti12]

I do not think seducing is for men. Whether you are a man or girl, will you prefer to seduce or be seduced? Why?

Me as a lady i will seduce a man in order to get his attention. If i do not seduce the man i am eying other ladies will do it and take him from me.

[lynkez]

Hey shanti12! I understand that nowadays ladies confront men asking for a date. I honestly can't. Not that I fear men but then I don't feel it is perceptive for me. Love comes naturally. I will maybe make friends with him and will try to be very good to him, identify what he likes so that I click point-on. I am sure if he gets taken by my personality and traits then he will ask me out. That is how love develops, but if at all you tried seducing one and it worked, then waste no time when you spot what your heart leaps at in joy and contentment.

[Ivyc]

Whatever the heart desires will always remain the medicine to it, me l will follow whatever my heart tells me to do because l want to be happy always. If l am interested in a man l will confront him and know what he feels about me, if it is love then the both of you will experience the same kind of feelings. Remember to always go after your heart because if you do the contrary you will end up hurting yourself and feelings as well.

[dacox]

Seducing and you are a girl is tough; so if there is a guy I like, I will do something that will make him notice me. Maybe get closer to him and making him a friend and who knows? One thing will lead to another and that’s it. I’ve just never imagined myself being straight to the point; and even if you want to, how do you start? Do you just go up to him and say, hey, I like you and I want you to be my guy? How do you go about it?

[lynkez]

...how do you start? Do you just go up to him and say, hey, I like you and I want you to be my guy? How do you go about it?

I concur with you dacox. However, some guys say they like it when a girl approaches them and expresses herself. Regardless of these, they suggest that you be keen on who to approach for not all understand this as normal, lest you will be mistaken to be loose.

[joyfaith]

Is there anything wrong seducing a man? I will seduce the man i love. I will do this indirectly. I will flirt with him but I will not make him to do the things he does not want. I will make him feel appreciated by me. I will seek his advice so that he feels important. I will look for chances of getting close to him and touching him. I will wear light scent that is attractive and dress sexy but not as a slut and I will play hard to get once he shows interest in me.

[Genius]

I prefer seducing a girl this create respect between me and her. She will not see me as a man who cannot express himself or who lacks courage of approaching a girl and seducing her.

[Faithfay30]

I will seduce but indirectly. To meet someone you have to go out and meet people lots of guys. Choose from them who will make a partner. A girl should make herself wanting to be met. Put yourself in a position for someone to approach you. Accept hook-ups and be willing to accept blind dates. You should get rid of the idea that making the first move is being too feminist.

[dacox]

Maybe you can just flirt with him; that will just show him that you are interested and he will make the move.

[Daisy]

Why pretend while burning with strong love feelings. If i know the guy has feelings for me i will not hesitate to subtly pull him in. Some guys are good at hiding their love feelings and at times it is hard to tell. Here is a true story: my friend was in love with this guy, the guy wanted my friend but he could not make a move. There were hints and signs from my friend to the guy. My friend thought the guy was taking too long. So she would always make sure she got a ride home with the guy. The ride home would end with a kiss on the cheek. Then after a few rides home, the guy started inviting my friend in for a drink or to do something innocent. At one point my friend pretended not to be feeling so well and the guy would rub her neck so my friend started hinting at the guy she was in love with him. My friend gave the guy several massages that made him so hot that he was the one to actually come to my friend and seduce her.

The secret is to pull him in and make him want you so much that he comes to you.