Their are so many rules some that of course make life to be more predictable and peaceful and some that you just wonder...Now for instance, there is this belief that you should never date your best friend. Many people argue that dating your best friend is a no-go-zone. The reason being that many people fear the outcome, especially if things go wrong down the line.
And yet, I keep wondering aloud, how else are you going to know someone well unless first you become friends - best friends first? Do you ever wonder for a second why there are so many divorces in town? Personally I think it is because people meet and date for a month or two and really never ever for once get to know each other well. So once they get married they then start to become friends but by then most people just start to realize how different they are let alone their goals and aspirations.
Now, the trick though - I think is to let that person with whom your friendship is growing to know from the start what your intentions are. A simple and genuine confession that you are attracted to them and would like to leave the options open for an intimate friendship would set the ball rolling.
Frankly, I still don't know why people balk from dating their best friends (opposite sex), Probably relationships would be much better.
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