Accept what the "grandfather" is doing and find my own way in life, that is what I would do.
I know this is hard to a child, but to wish to have this grandfather back, would not help a child out.
Otherwise, if there was real love from the grandfather, he would not stop sharing the life with the child. So, I believe, he simply want to get out of a positin, where people might misuse him as a paying goose. |