Everything Hurts

[nancyshanice]

Have you ever been in a situation where you want to make changes and don’t know where or how to start? Imagine this situation, how can you change when everything you touch turns to shyt. How can you change when you love someone and you just don't know what to do because they are not happy anymore? How can you want to be happy when everything around you and everyone around you is like a filter? How can you change when all you feel is pain a overwhelming sense of pain. How can you change when everything seems so wrong and all you try to do is make it right? I just don't know how to change and what I can do to make things better.

I think everyone has something they want change or know they need to change but like in my case there are things holding us back that we do not know how to get around and in the rest of it do not know where to start. Any suggestions?

[luicer]

The reality is that, the physical pain can manifest from an emotional level. Then the mental pain is the same as what you can feel hurting physically. Nothing that will ever be successful without you feeling its weight and also burden to it, it first hurts before you feel its sweetness.

[Mercy20]

When wishing to do something do not have the second mirror reflecting those who are watching you or shading you from doing it,go ahead and work to your abilities and with determination all will work smart for you, but if you consider those behind you then failures welcomed too, hence hurts of all kinds.

[Alloys]

The secret is that whatever you want to do, just start and get into it and run it the rest will just fix themselves, that is the magic behind all that.

[lynkez]

First of all, we must forgive ourselves for the failures we have caused for ourselves. We should be sure that what we are is not what we were and still is not what we will be in future. There is still room for changing for the better. We must let go of our negative emotions and focus on improving. Our past bad experiences should serve as lessons.

[genius2]

change does not come on a silver plate neither will it ever emerge so.while we try pushing on some forces try pulling us.However, without losing focus, keeping our eyes on the ball we always get where we want to be.life is full of obstacles,making mistakes day in day out,even when you've done your best to avoid them,however lets not forget mistakes are success in disguise.

[dacox]

Only a troubled person could speak like this. Please make peace with yourself, these stones blocking our way should be used to help us step up to the next level stronger and ready to conquer everything. Forget the past and quit holding on to something that does not bare any fruit. Be strong and indestructible. Don’t give room for depression to get the better of you, and above all; never blame God for anything. If at all, ask for his strength.

[lynkez]

We should always accept the truth about something we can't change. It hurts yes but there is nothing more into it. We have to succumb to sincere defeat and move on. Life is a challenge and has all stuffs for our sake of learning the hard way.

[Joshua]

I'm certain that every person at one point of life loses sense of self. Do soul searching in order to find yourself and make peace with yourself.